Unexpected Family (2026) Review: Jackie Chan's Most Emotional Performance About Alzheimer's and Found Family
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Unexpected Family (2026), the
original title of this film is 过家家 (Guò jiā jiā) which means
"Playing House". This comedy-drama film was directed by Li Taiyan and
was released on January 1, 2026 in China (New Year holiday), and in February
2026 in America via China Lion. The film has a runtime of 121 minutes, in
Mandarin and Wuhan dialect. The box office in China grossed $7.7 million,
considered a moderate success for a Berlinale 2026 festival film.
Ren Jiqing, a retired
weightlifting coach who lives alone, begins to experience Alzheimer's. He
mistakes a young man named Zhong Bufan for his son who left home a long time
ago. On a doctor's advice, Bufan together with Su Xiaoyue who pretends to be
his daughter-in-law, the car wash shop owner "Master" Jia and his
neighbor Jin Zhen agree to create a temporary family for Ren. At first it was
just a pretense to make Ren happy for the rest of his life, but slowly the pretense
becomes real. Each member of this fake family turns out to have their own
family wounds, and from taking care of Ren, they actually learn the true
meaning of family.
Critics at AsianMoviePulse and
Neo Film Shop say this is Jackie Chan's transformation. At 71 years old, he
finally doesn't need to jump from buildings, he just needs to play the gaze of
a person who is losing his memory. Rated 9/10 and called "Jackie Chan the
actor is reborn". On Rotten Tomatoes someone said "poignant, funny
and wise, best performance of his career".
However, there is also negative
criticism. South China Morning Post said "ham-fisted life lessons",
too many forced life lessons. The medical community in Hong Kong and China
criticized the depiction of Alzheimer's which was considered unrealistic and
"gaslighting" patients for the sake of false happiness.
This film stars: Jackie Chan, Peng Yuchang, Zhang Jianing, Pan Binlong, Ping Li and more.
In my opinion:
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It feels sad to see my childhood
hero getting old, but on the other hand I am happy to see Jackie Chan still
healthy and fit. Even in one scene in this film, Jackie lifts a barbell
weighing about 4-6 kg. But I don't know if it's real or not, what's clear is
that he lifts it haha. Back to this film, I admit old Jackie Chan looks like my
late father. So his character in this film is quite emotional for me.
The core of this film is how we
should act when facing someone with Alzheimer's disease. There is a sentence
that opened my heart,
"Patients with Alzheimer's
may not hurt the patient themselves that much. But those who feel the pain are
their family or relatives."
The pain in above sentence is the
emotional pain of seeing someone we love having to experience panic, sadness,
forgetfulness, random actions and even self-harm. Jackie Chan plays as Mr. Ren,
an old man who lives alone and has a memory that his son will come home one
day. A little spoiler, Mr. Ren's son, Zhuangzhuang, will not come home.
However, Mr. Ren has another
'family'. They are his neighbors, Auntie Jin and Su Xiaoyue, then a colleague
who owes a debt of gratitude to Mr. Ren, Jia Ye. What is interesting is that
there is a young man named Zhong Bufan, a young man who is looking for a job
and Jia Ye introduces him. It turns out, when Mr. Ren sees Bufan, he is like
seeing his own son. This is where there is a glimmer of hope to heal Mr. Ren,
at least to reduce the suffering of his Alzheimer's.
From the beginning to the middle
of the film, the drama has not yet peaked. It still tells the daily life of Mr.
Ren and Bufan. From the middle of the film to the end, the drama begins to
tense. Starting from Mr. Ren meeting his coach at the nursing home to Mr. Ren
collapsing and being treated in the hospital. I was very touched by the ending
of this film, where Bufan and the others want to try to 'fix' Mr. Ren's
memories of his son. What made me saddest was Mr. Ren's last vlog about the "unexpected
family" who had accompanied him. The sentence that touched me the most is,
"He (Bufan) has to learn
some skills, otherwise he can't make a living. Even if I die, you have to help
me remember. Don't forget."
So much does Mr. Ren love this
'unexpected family', that he even wants to still remember them even though he
will die one day. Damn, I immediately remembered my father.
Honestly, this film is definitely
not the film you would expect from an action actor like Jackie Chan. But for
me, this film makes me feel like how the family or relatives of an Alzheimer's
sufferer feel. It takes a high level of patience, perseverance and sincerity to
live with an Alzheimer's sufferer, this is not a trivial matter. All the cast
of this film are really total in exploring their characters, very emotional and
natural. I don't care what score is given to this film..
But for me this film is 8.5/10.
Always be healthy Mr. Jacky Chan. 很感人的一部电影
Are you caring for an elderly
parent or loved one with dementia? You are not alone. Our Caregiver Education
Center is now live. Inspired by Unexpected Family.Let's talk about it in the
comments — what's one thing you wish people understood about caregiving?
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Inspired by the film Unexpected
Family, Ren Jiqing's neighbors and close friends create a false reality to make
him happy. In the real world, this is a communication strategy known as
Validation Therapy. But is it okay for us to lie about it? Let's discuss it in
this KC column.
In fact, in dementia care,
"Therapeutic White Lies" can reduce anxiety when the truth actually
causes repeated wounds. Instead of constantly denying someone who believes his
son will come home, we first validate his feelings, "You must really miss
your son," then gently divert to a sense of security. This is what the
characters in the film learn.
Then what are the daily
communication tips in handling Alzheimer's patients?
- Use simple sentences, one piece of information at a time.
- Maintain eye contact, a soft tone, and a soothing touch.
- Avoid arguing with their reality. Accept, validate, then divert with positive distraction.
- Give time, patiently wait for an answer without interrupting the conversation.
But please remember, caregiving is love, but it is also tiring. Make a routine rest schedule and ask for help from family or community, seek support by joining a caregiver group or professional counseling. Take care of your own health by getting enough sleep, eating nutritious food, light exercise for 15 minutes. Remember, you don't have to do it all alone.


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